Saying Goodbye
When love is gone, it’s time to say goodbye. But saying goodbye doesn't mean forgetting the person you've loved before. It's the relationship, memories and hope that you should let go. Goodbye doesn't mean it's the end of the world. But instead it's a new beginning, a new challenge that is full of hope, as if you're entering another phase of your life.
Love is gone when you try to treat each other with respect but nothing works. Sometimes when people are ready to move on, they stay together for other reasons but all they seem to do is to hurt each other. If you are trying to be kind but all you do is fight, maybe it is time for a serious talk about the future.
Remember, life is wonderful and full of challenges and opportunities. The only thing you should do is to know how, when and where a decision must be made. Don't let the memories stop you from seeing the sunshine again. Don't live your life in the shadow of your past. Try to see the horizon of the future and you'll discover the Wonder of Life.
How does one say goodbye to someone whom we have begun to love and care about, without inflicting pain? How do we show a person that goodbye doesn't mean abandoning him or her? That it only means we have to let go of a relationship if things don't work out any better anymore. I guess there is really no easy way.
Goodbye seems to be the only concluding remark we have to say when we leave someone behind. It sounds so final. And yet it is a heart-breaking reality we have to face somehow, someday no matter how dreadful it may be.
Letting go of those we deeply love and care about, for whatever reason often leaves us helplessly shattered. But on the other hand, clinging pointlessly to what has been, memories or relationships usually isn't very good for us in the end. But learning to have the courage to let go is a sign of GROWTH. It is an indication that we are mature enough to know what we can do without and that we are ready to make room for what we really need for our next phase of our life.
Goodbye is a sad thing, but it is very real. We have to face the fact that we all have to say goodbye sometime in our lives and there is no easy way to say it. That is why people often take off when they least expect it. They just walk away because they can't figure a way of saying goodbye.
Some people think that it's holding on that make us strong, however, most of the time it's letting go. Sometimes, we say goodbye to the person we love without wanting to. But that doesn’t mean that we've stopped loving them or we've stopped to care. Sometimes, goodbye is a painful way to say I love you.
Yes, there's no doubt about it. Parting gives us a lot of sorrow, especially if it is forever. But then ‘Goodbye’ is really just another way of saying ‘Hello’. We move on and on. Goodbye may mean a lot more Hellos. So we have to let go and we should know when to finally end it.
A new chapter in our life can only begin only when we say goodbye to the last.
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